“I have experienced harassment in bathrooms all my life. So I go through a mental process whenever nature calls. To avoid the potential for harassment I would ask myself: do I come across guy enough to use the men’s bathroom. or do I feel threatened by the men in this place, that I would take the risk of being yelled at in the women’s bathroom, which happens often”
“If you don’t go through this mental process like I do, you’re most likely, cisgender.”
–Yee Won Chong
In this talk, Yee Won Chong shares # on being an ally to people who are transgender.
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Assume that everyone knows what bathrooms they’re in.
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Do not assume that everyone goes by he or she.
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On invasive questions. Ask yourself, “Would I want someone to ask me that?”
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Do not tolerate anti-transgender remarks or humor
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Be open to thinking in entirely new ways. Start thinking outside the gender binary.
From Aspiring Humanitarian, Relando Thompkins-Jones, MSW, LLMSW
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