Getting In The Space To Write: 4 Things I Use
I almost fell off my bike. It was July 13, 2013. I was at the gym that night, putting some miles in on the stationary bike. The place felt pretty empty for a Saturday, but I liked that because I had access to more machines, and felt that I could take my time.
I was already on edge that night, but the exercise was helping me to manage myself. I normally keep my head down on the bike, but I pedaled that night with my head raised, headphones plugged in, and eyes fixed on the television above.
The more I tuned in, the more I began to notice that my legs were moving faster than they normally did. My focus was narrowed, and I was increasingly aware of the pace of my heartbeat. I almost fell off my bike when the words came out.
“We the jury find George Zimmerman, Not Guilty.”
I literally had to catch myself in that moment. I got off, and in a daze, made my way home in near silence, and early that next morning wrote “How Does It Feel To Be A Problem?”
Occasionally I am asked about how I get in the space to write, and where I gain my inspiration from.
While some of my notes might be planned, others come about out of having some experience, or recalling something so moving that I just have to share. To me, writing is as much as an outlet for myself as it is a way for me to connect with other people.
For instance, I wrote “Randomly Organized Thoughts From 3500 Feet” after taking in what was happening as my plane was descending into my hometown after a long trip. I wrote “Hurry Up And Wait: On Social Justice Elitism, And Eagerness For Social Change” after engaging an interview panel.
“Repair What Has Been Broken, While There’s Still Time” was written while I was in the hospital room with a family member on the last day of that year. I wrote “Blindspot Redacted: Uncovering Privilege” when reflecting on a learning opportunity I experienced while teaching, and I wrote “The Climate” after having a conversation with students on campus.
While I hear that location is important, I don’t always use the same location to get my writing done. Sometimes I write in my office, sometimes in bed, I might write at the dinner table, or even record some thoughts on the way home.
Still, there is some method to what I do, and aside from being inspired to write, here are 3 additional things that I like to keep around to help me finish.
A notebook with a pencil or pen–Sometimes, I’ve found that I need to jot down ideas as soon as they come so I won’t forget. I have also started several notes in my notebook, only to type the rest on a computer.
Music & headphones–Having headphones in my ears helps me to focus. Although I typically have my playlists set to shuffle, if I’m writing, I play a single track on repeat. Doing so allows me to use the repetitive sounds to focus, while simultaneously ignoring it.
A recording device–Sometimes, I might be stuck in my head when I should really be speaking from the heart. When that happens, I take a few minutes away from writing, to say it out loud; to speak to the core of the point I’m trying to make. Afterwards I listen, and write it out.
If you’re a writer, where do you write? How do you write?
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From Aspiring Humanitarian, Relando Thompkins-Jones, MSW, LLMSW